Life brings us different things. With life, you will never know what to expect. We go on with our everyday lives not knowing what could happen to us as the day progresses. And with it, we meet a lot of people and we are put in different kinds of situations. Some of the people we meet, we don't like. And some of the situations we find ourselves in, we don't like as well. We cannot avoid it when these people or situations irritate us or make us angry. So instead of focusing on the anger we feel, we should face the fact that we get angry sometimes and we cannot help it. And because of this, we need to tell ourselves that we need to start dealing with it for our own good.
When you go to work, you cannot avoid people who make you angry as well. You need to evaluate that person and find out if he is doing it on purpose. If you think he is, then it would be better for you to avoid that person and not let him get the satisfaction of seeing you angry or mad. However, if you think the person who's making you angry is not doing it on purpose, you need to control your anger before you end up hurting someone. Most of the time, people do things without the intention of hurting others. You need to understand that although certain people make you angry, it's not all the time that they intend for that to happen.
Most people who provoke you to become angry usually has the intention of getting you in trouble. And most of the time, you give in to our emotions and then you throw a fit not realizing that you're only causing yourself trouble. The next time that happens, stop and breath in and out to calm yourself. This will give yourself the chance to relax and analyze the situation more clearly. If you go on an uncontrolled rage right away, you've already lost to the one who made you angry.
You can also be the object of another person's anger. If this is the case, avoid shouting to the other person. Keep your calm despite the other person's outrageous outburst. Always speak in a soft tone when explaining yourself because you will get to resolve things better in this manner. If you shout, you will only provoke the other person to shout louder and this could go on and on, only worsening the situation.
Always get control of your anger and release all of it if required. When a person has angered you, let the person know what he has done but do it in a calm way. Shouting will lead to nowhere and can only bring more confusion and misunderstanding. If you are the one at fault, admit your mistakes and try to find ways to make amends as soon as possible. Apologize to the people concerned if possible. The most effective anger management strategy is actually accepting your mishaps and mistakes as well.