This article is obviously directed at men but ladies if you want to comment then feel free!
1, Understand what it is to be a man! I'm not talking about what you learnt from your dad or your friends, what I mean is how you as a man project yourself to others. The great thing about the internet age is how easy it is to simply go on line and find out information about anything under the sun. So if you have ever been told by a woman to "man up" or "be a man" then maybe it's time you took those comments seriously, did yourself a favour and found out what "being a man" really means! The ladies in your life will love it!
2, What the hell do women see in Brad Pitt anyway? It is surprising how many men simply don't understand why their woman goes weak at the knees when her favourite film star appears on screen. Let me give you a clue gents! He looks GOOD! Now go away and think about that and when you have finally worked it out take a look at your self in the mirror and then dump those baggy shorts!
3, Stop living in the past! Men in particular seem to revel in throwing every little indiscretion that their woman has ever committed back in her face the moment an argument starts. Let it go guys! Want to know why? It is because women LOVE a man who has the capacity and the heart to forgive! Women know they are not perfect, men unfortunately believe they are!
4, Except responsibility for your life and everything that happens in it! The days when you could cry to mom that "a big boy did it and ran away" are long gone my friend! Owning up to your mistakes is a big plus in a woman's mind, it means you are honest with yourself and as far as she is concerned that means that you will always be honest with her!
5, Learn what maturity is and then get some! The number of immature men running round loose in this world is simply frightening! Whether their dads were immature as well or they have been spoiled by their mommy's is anybody's guess but women HATE immature men! To a woman a man who is immature is not a prospect for a good relationship, after all if the man can't look after himself how is he going to look after HER kids? So guys go join a weekend course were you will have to learn to cook for yourself and clean your own underwear! Or even better sign up for a course in leadership skills, there is nothing like trying to command other men for building maturity.
6, Take charge! Women want a leader not a bully, they like to be led by a man who knows where he is going and how to get there! Now this is not the same as driving blindly down a country road and refusing to ask for directions! Admitting you are lost is a sign of maturity and responsibility, not admitting it is a sign of stupidity! A woman wants a man who can take her to a restaurant that he thinks she will like rather than her being asked over and over "where would you like to go?" A leader is safe and respected, so do yourself a favour guys and take your woman by the hand and show her you are a man!
7, Shape up or ship out! Join a gym Jim and get yourself fit! OK so that's not really Paul Simon but you know what I mean. If you are more Billy Blob than Superman then it is time to do something about it. And while you are at it how about cleaning the yard and fixing stuff! There is NOTHING more annoying to a woman than an untidy man and I just know this is going to come as a surprise to a lot of men out there but women find a tidy man a turn on! Note I said tidy not nerd so dump the geek glasses! Tidiness points to responsibility which points to maturity which points to...OK you get the idea!
So there you are, 7 laws about women and getting her back. Why did I call it 7 Laws? Because I strongly think that most of the relationship problems and breakups that men go through are linked to one or maybe all of the points above. Sort these out and you will stand a far better chance of getting an ex lover back or even attracting a new one!