Breakups are no fun for anyone that happens to be involved. I don't think that anyone would ever sit back and daydream about the day that they fall in love and then breakup. So, when it happens to you, it is not unexpected for you to feel a tidal wave of emotions that you do not seem to be able to get a grip on. Just remember that it happens to everyone, even the biggest Hollywood hunks will get dumped at some time in their lives, sometimes more than once.
If you have just gone through a break up with your girlfriend and you want to get your girlfriend back, then pay attention and keep reading.
Before you go out there and try something foolish or mistaken to get your girlfriend back, you want to take a step back and learn what techniques or ways that you can use to make your ex-girlfriend CRAVE your affection again. I know, it sounds a bit outlandish at first to think that you can make her actually crave your attention, but when you really look at what a woman feels when she is attracted to a guy, you can see the plain evidence that it might not be as hard as you think to make her want to be with you again.
Here are 4 ways that you can use to make her want to be back with you, and you can be confident that you will be able to get your girlfriend back:
1. Handle your emotions before you do anything else.
Your emotions can become your worst enemy and a trap in your quest to get your girlfriend back. When you make an emotional decision, you are not always going to make the best choice possible. For example, your emotions may tell you that the best decision is to call your ex in the middle of the night, but when you have a clear head and mind, you can see why this would be a terrible choice. Your emotions can also make you feel like it is IMPOSSIBLE to get back your ex-girlfriend, and it can make you give up any chances of trying to win her back.
2. Learn to tune out your guy friends advice.
I don't know, but for some reason, the people that mean the best can sometimes hand out the worst advice. Unless your buddies have a long experience of being able to get back with their ex, you probably do not want to put much stock in their ideas and plans to get her back. Sometimes it can seem like a piece of advice will work out well, but when you actually take it and try to make use of it, you will find that it does not actually work out so well in real life. So, don't be afraid to tune out the advice that your buddies give you, if you want to attract her back.
3. Make her see you as a new dude.
Sometimes you have to reinvent yourself in life and this is one of the best times. By this, I don't mean that you should try and become a completely different person, that is not going to win her back. But, you know where you have your shortcomings and this is as good a time as any to improve on them. When you can make your ex see you as a different guy so to speak, then you can easily win her affection back and make her forget the past with you and want to start over with a new future.
4. Put forth a viable plan to get your girlfriend back.
When you lay down a plan with a solid foundation, you can make the whole adventure of getting back your girlfriend that much easier for you. When you don't have a plan to get your girlfriend back, you don't know what to do and when to make the next move. It's kind of like a chess game, make the wrong move and you will lose. Plan out what you are going to do, and you will easily be able to get your girlfriend back and make her crave your affection again.
When you breakup with your girlfriend, it's easy to feel lost and find yourself wanting to get back with her as soon as possible. More importantly, it's wise to have a plan and to know that when you DO win her back, it will not end just as quickly. A lot of men that do get their girlfriend back, end up losing her again because they ignore these 4 ways to make her crave their affection again. Do not make the wrong decision. Choose wisely.