When your relationship went to pieces, your first thought was probably, how do I make my ex boyfriend want me back? What men and women want after a breakup are usually very different. You may want your ex back right now, but he just wants to be left alone. You want to tell him how much you need him, but he will find your actions pathetic. But in spite of these differences, you can still have a future with the man you love. Use these proven tips to make him love you again.
The best way to start the process of getting your ex back is to get your emotions under control. You cannot force your love down his throat and harassing him will not make him want to be with you. If you insist on staying constantly in his face, he will never want you back. That is the difference between men and women. You want things settled and back to normal right away and he wants to be alone and sulk. That is why you cannot be calling him at all hours of the day and night. By telling him you cannot live without him, he will pull farther away. You might think this will make him soften his heart, but he will see you as a needy and desperate woman. It will only make him uncomfortable and he will resolve to never speak to you again.
Some women will make it a point of showing up where their ex hangs out and attempt to make him talk to them. They will even create an embarrassing scene by crying and begging him to love them again. This is a sure way to end a relationship for good. If you have been doing any of these things, stop immediately. These tactics are the exact opposite of what you should be doing, if you hope to have your ex boyfriend want you back. We have already said that men and women are different, so you have to understand a little about how a man's mind works. Women fall in love from being close, but men fall in love from a distance. That is why you must stay away from him for now.
The surest way of making him want you again, is to ignore your ex boyfriend. Appear to be accepting the breakup and moving on. Act as if he does not exist and you will get his attention in a positive way. Men always want what they cannot have, cars, jobs or money. But it is especially true when it comes to a woman. As long as you are at hand and he can have you anytime he chooses, you lose a lot of your appeal.
Go out with your friends and have a good time. This will show your ex that you can live your life without him just fine. Seeing you enjoying life without him will make him remember the good times you had together. Soon he will notice the void in his life that has been created by you being gone. This will make him come to the conclusion that he needs you back in his life.