How To Overcome Fear Of Talking To Beautiful Girls

Do you know why so many men are afraid of approaching or talking to women, especially beautiful ones? So what is preventing these guys from being successful with girls? Are you one of them?

First of all ask yourself these questions. Do you ever feel fear when it comes dating women? Have you ever be been in a situation when you want to meet a girl but you started to feel fear and did not do anything about it? Maybe you already had the number of the girl you fancied, but were too afraid to call? Perhaps you were already on a date and you wanted to kiss her but too afraid to do so? You see, there is one common theme in all these questions and the answer is "FEAR".

So if you answer "yes" to any of the questions, fret not, because it is very common for men to feel fear when it comes to approaching, talking and dating women they fancy. Yes, I know it is not exactly fun to admit that you are afraid of interacting with women you like and it is this unwillingness to admit that you have this problem that can only make the situation worse.

You see, if you don't admit that you have the problem, then how are you able to find solutions to it since you are in a denial mode and such a problem did not exist? So the first thing you need to do is do get over your denial mode and admit that you are afraid or feel fear when it comes to meeting women.

Once you have done that and then do something about it. Learn how to have confidence and be an attractive alpha male whom women love. Once you have realized that it is no big deal in approaching women then the improvement in you can begin. But if you stay in your denial mode you will only stay where you are, being afraid of meeting women.

It is a fact that one of the biggest causes of fear in guys when it comes to situations with beautiful girls is that we put too much importance in what women may think of you and what will happen in that situation. That means most men don't take the action that they should because they are afraid that they might screw things up and get rejected.

The question to ask yourself is that why should you fear the future when it has not happened yet and most likely will not happen to sabotage your chances with the women you like? You have just sabotaged yourself over some things which are unlikely to happen if you are afraid, right? Even if you get rejected, so what is the big deal? Just go look for another opportunity or try again next time, can't you?

Now, if you take action, at least you still have a chance. If you don't, then your chance of meeting her is definitely gone. So which option would you prefer? Why is your fear of losing her not powerful enough to overcome your fear of meeting her? So understand this, if you do not approach or talk to the beautiful woman you like, someone else will.

There are many ways to overcome fear and build confidence such as mastering the art of seduction flirt. Once you have the mastery in dealing with women, your confidence will soar. Alternatively, there are also good self hypnosis methods for you to eliminate fear and gain confidence when approaching beautiful girls.

Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at How To Talk To Girls Confidently and How To Have Attractive Male Sex Appeal

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