When Your boyfriend tells you he wants to end the relationship, the feeling is indescribable. There is shock and heart break, but there is something else. It is the feeling of being rejected by someone you love. When you feel rejection it can make you give up and go somewhere to hide or it can give you a feeling close to hatred. If you are feeling regret that is near to hatred, then you want to see your ex regret the breakup on his knees.
If your goal is to get your ex boyfriend back, then you need to know what made him breakup with you and fix the problem. Breakups are caused by many things that happen in a relationship. If you thought your relationship was running smooth until he dropped the bomb on you, then it might be your fault. You might have become too available and your ex is taking you for granted. If this is the case, then he probably is planning on coming back. But only if he does not find something that interests him more.
He is using you as a safety net, in case things do not work out for him, you will be there to catch him. If you want him back, you will have to show him that you are not his toy. The first way to show your independence is to move on with you life without your ex and have no contact with him at all. He is expecting you to run after him crying and pleading. Instead, act as if he does not exist. Men cannot stand this silent treatment for long. Your ex boyfriend had been used to you being available whenever he wanted you. Not hearing from you for a while will make him wonder why you are not trying to get him back.
A small boy can love a toy very much, but after a while he will put it in his toy box and find another for a while. When he decides to get the old toy out again he expects it to be there. If it is not, he will become desperate to find it. This is the situation between you and your ex right now. He decided to put you aside for a while, but when he wants you, he expects you to be waiting for his call. If you are not there waiting for his call, he will become desperate. So when he has not heard from you for a while, he will decide to give you a call to make sure you are still waiting.
This is where you can make him begin to regret the breakup. Tell him you are glad he called because you had been wanting to let him know that you agree and he was right about the breakup. Tell him that you think it is best for both of you. End the conversation. The man you love is now feeling the rejection you feel and he will not like it. The only way he can get over the feeling is to get you back and he will coming back on his knees.