After a breakup, you are faced with the problem of getting your ex boyfriend to want you back. You will get plenty of advice, but most of it will not be what you want to hear. Since your family and friends will be on your side they will tell you to let him go and find someone better. But, you love him and do not want to let him go and in your heart you know there is no one better for you. You have to follow your heart and not let others do your thinking for you. You can get your ex back. You just need to know the fastest and easiest way of winning him back now! In fact your man will love you even more than ever before.
This might sound strange, since he broke up with you, but the best way to make him want you again is to reject him. Up to now you have probably been doing just the opposite and trying to tell him how much you need him. If you have been calling him night and day, you have to stop doing it now. You are making yourself look needy and desperate and your ex boyfriend will lose respect for you. Staying close to him in order to keep him from finding someone else will not work either. If your ex wants someone else, harassing him will only drive him into their arms faster.
The best thing to do right now is to put as much distance between you and your ex boyfriend as possible. Give him the space and time to sort things out and settle down. At this stage of getting your ex boyfriend to want you back, time and distance are your best friends. You have to let your man see what life is like without you. In order for him to want you back, he has to miss being with you. That is why you need to give him this time alone. He cannot possibly miss you if you are always around. Take a step back and think about it, you are desperate and confused because your ex boyfriend rejected you. All you can think of is getting your ex back.
Think about what your ex would do if you could turn things around and make him have the same feelings of desperation and rejection you are feeling. He would do anything he could to get you back. You might think it is impossible to make him feel that way, since he broke up with you, but it is not. Even though a man breaks up with you, he will not be willing to let you go too easily. In other words, he wants you to be sitting and moping and wishing he will call. You need show him you are not going to do that and appear to accept the breakup and move on. He will become confused by you not trying to get him back anymore. He will now feel that you are rejecting him and this will bruise his ego. The only way he can get rid of the feeling of rejection will be to get you back.