When your ex boyfriend dumped you, it might have seemed like the end of love to you, but you can get your ex back even though he dumped you. In fact you can have him feeling as desperate as you are feeling right now. Think of how you are feeling at this time. You feel rejected, unwanted and desperate. To get your ex back, you have to make them feel the same way.
It all starts with showing your ex that you are strong enough to accept the breakup and move on. This is not what he expects you to do. He is expecting you to come running after him saying you cannot live without him. But you are not going to do that. Instead you are going to ignore your ex and act as if they do not exist. There must be no contact at all for at least a month.
That means no phone calls, emails or text messages. Just drop off his radar completely. Remember the old phrase 'absence makes the heart grow fonder'? It really works, especially with men. They cannot stand to be ignored or rejected. When you do not try to get him back, your ex will feel both emotions. If you can hold out and have absolutely no contact with him for at least a month, he will begin to miss you.
That is one of the main reasons you want your ex boyfriend back, you miss being with him. If you can make your ex miss you it stands to reason that he will want you back as much as you want him. Giving him the chance to experience his life without you for a while will make him have second thoughts about the breakup. Once these thoughts start working on him it will not be long before he becomes desperate to have you back.
While you are giving your ex time to start missing you, it would be a good time to work on your own image. When you run into your ex boyfriend again you want to look stunning. So, have some fun and go to a salon and get the works. New hair style, manicure, pedicure, massage and a tan. Next go shopping for new clothes to accent your new look. Now, you are all set to knock your ex boyfriends socks off.
Call up some of your girlfriends and go out on the town. Have a good time and be sure to stop by the places your ex hangs out and let him get a good look at you. He will not believe his eyes. He thought you would be home moping around and waiting for him to call. His jaw will drop to the floor and he will try to get a chance to talk to you. Do not let him engage you in conversation or you might ruin everything by crying. Just let him get a good look and leave. From that point on, he will not be able to get you off his mind and he will have to have you back.