Do you still love your ex boyfriend and want him back? If you do, you have probably tried to find some information on getting your ex boyfriend back. The first ones to give you information were your family and friends. They are bound to be on your side and tell you to let him go and forget him. But they are not you and you do not want to let him go and you know you can never forget him. You have dreamed of a future with him and you are not willing to give that future up without a fight.
This can cause you to become demanding and chase your ex boyfriend trying to make him tell you why he broke up with you. He will only pull farther away and not have any communication with you at all. You are letting your heart do your thinking for you and if you continue you will lose him forever. Take a step back and try to get a grip on your emotions. You cannot make him feel guilty for breaking up with you because he has already anticipated you trying to do that. He is also expecting a deluge of phone calls, emails and text messages and has steeled himself against that. So you are not going to gain anything by harassing him and making yourself look needy and desperate.
So it is useless to lose your pride and dignity. Instead show him that you accept the breakup and move on with your life. Completely ignore him and do not try to contact him in any way. You should disappear for a while. Take a vacation, or if you cannot do that, visit out of town relatives and friends. Do exactly the opposite of what he expects. Act as if he does not exist. When you get back from your vacation or visiting relatives, you will be in much better condition to deal with the situation.
Your ex boyfriend will also be wondering what happened to you. In fact, he may be wondering if you have another guy. This will make him feel the need for you in his life and he will be having second thoughts about the breakup. The farther you stay away from him the more desperate he will become. By being patient and respecting his wishes for time to be alone, you have become the one in control.
This puts things back to square one, when he first met you. He is attracted to you again and you seem unattainable. Your ex boyfriend is challenged again and he will do what men do best. He will start chasing you and this puts you on familiar ground. All you will have to do to get your ex boyfriend back is what you did when he was trying to win your heart in the beginning. By not following your heart and using some male psychology, which is men always want what they cannot have, you have your future back.