If you think that this article is going to show you how to use hypnotism on others to attract and seduce beautiful women for dates, it is not because it is morally wrong to do this without the consent of the other party. However, I will show you how to use hypnosis on yourself, so that you can attract other people to you as who you are.
Before we go into that, let us have a brief understanding of what hypnosis is all about. There are many myths about hypnotherapy and perhaps the biggest one of all is that when a hypnotist waves a pendulum in front of you, you will be under his/her control and that you will have no control of your faculties. That is definitely not true.
All of us are under a state of hypnosis most of the time. We under hypnosis when we are daydreaming. We are under hypnosis when we are watching a movie because we laugh at some funny segments, get excited with an interesting scene or feel sad in a moving drama. In other words, we are under the suggestions of what is shown in the movie and we reacted to it. As long as we are reacting to suggestions, we are in a state of hypnosis.
However, we can always walk away from the TV set or the movie hall, can't we? We are still in control of ourselves, aren't we? This is exactly what will happen when we under hypnotherapy. We can always get up from the hypno-therapist's couch if we want to and are in full control of ourselves.
With that misconception out of the way, let's explore how self hypnosis can help you to attract and date beautiful girls or handsome men if you are a woman.
You see, hypnotism can be used as a therapy to change some of our social habits and to enhance our attractive attributes. You can get hypnosis DVDs, VCDs or MP3s to perform self hypnosis to better yourselves such as quitting smoking or losing weight amongst many other benefits.
Hypnotherapy is when a therapist relaxes you to a semi-sleeping stage when your conscious mind is not as active and so the therapist can suggest things that you want to change for the better into your subconscious mind. When these suggestions are repeated overtime, they become part of you as your mind accepts them as facts.
For instance, women like and adore confident men and if you are too shy to approach them to strike up a conversation, you will hardly have any means to meet beautiful women, much less to date them. In this case, your therapist will instill into you that you are a confident man, full of charm and grace until you truly believe that you are and so you will confidently walk up to any girls without the shyness you had before.
If your smoking habit turn off the girls, your therapy will include suggestions as to why you can quit smoking easily and that you already are a non smoker so much so that smoking no longer appeals to you.
So using self hypnotism to attract women is not about using underhand tactics on the girls that you want to attract, but to improve your good attributes until women find you naturally attractive.