If you are asking how can I get my ex boyfriend back after the breakup, you are not alone. Women all over the world ask that question everyday. The good news is that about 90% of the time the relationship can be renewed. So do not give up hope, here are expert tips to get back the man you love.
When the breakup occurred there might have been some heated words and accusations exchanged. If you are regretting what you said or the part you had in the breakup you should apologize. But, the time for apologizing or having any contact with your ex is not now. You should wait at least a month before you calling, emailing or sending any text messages. You have to drop out of sight and give him time to sort things out. You have to show him that you are emotionally stable enough to accept the breakup and leave him alone.
Showing yourself to be desperate by crying and begging him to love you again will only make him pull farther away. Men want someone that they can depend on in a crisis. If you continually harass him by telling him you cannot live without him, he will not have much confidence in you. How to get my ex boyfriend back after a breakup, or losing him forever is largely dependent on your approach. By moving on with your life and not sitting at home waiting for his call, you are asserting your independence.
You should go out and have fun with your friends. Always make sure you look your best because you never know when you might run into your ex boyfriend. To get back the man you love, you have to arouse his desire for you again. Chances are when he sees you having a good time without him, it will bring back memories. He will think of all of the good times you had together, and seeing you looking so good will make him wonder why he let you go. This is what you needed to do. Get him to thinking of you again.
Give him a few days after he has seen you and he will probably call you. This will be the time to make your apology. Do not just blurt it out as soon as you answer the phone and do not start crying. Let him do most of the talking and just before you end the conversation, make your apology. Do not be lengthy. Just say that you are sorry for your part in the breakup and then tell him you have some where to go and end the conversation.
He will be calling again and asking you to meet him for coffee and a talk. When you meet him, be cheerful and self confident. Let him do most of the talking and look him straight in the eyes. Being with you again will remind him of all the good times you has together and he will want you back again.