There are a lot of women in the world. They come in all sizes and shapes, but there is always one that you find special. When you find her you never want to be without her. That is what makes it so bad when you do something stupid and lose her. You would do anything to make your ex girlfriend fall in love with you again.
Many times you never know how much you care for her until she says the relationship is over. Until then you may have taken her for granted. I know because I have been - done that. I know how confusing it can be when you never see it coming. The thing that was the most frustrating thing for me was that every time I asked her why she did not love me anymore, I got the same answer. She would just say "you know why". I finally stopped asking her and made a plan to make her fall in love with me. It worked for me and it will work for you.
Since she kept telling me that I knew why she fell out of love with me, I decided to sit down and do some soul searching. I soon found out what she was talking about. I wasn't the same guy I had been when she met me. At that time I was self confident, full of fun and free as a bird. This is what she liked about me, but the more I fell in love with her, the more I changed. I became jealous of her. I lost my self confidence and was afraid to lose her. This caused me to hover over her all the time and she felt smothered.
My jealousy led to petty arguments and accusations. Doing this soul searching I could see why she fell out of love with me. I was not me anymore. I also became aware that I was still smothering her. I would not leave her alone. I actually was stalking her. I would park down the street from her place to see if any guys were coming around. I would call her late at night to see if she was at home. No wonder she said she said she was done with me.
I decided that I was not going to bug her anymore and I didn't. I found things to do, like becoming a little league coach and working with the under privileged. I couldn't put her out of my mind, but I saw that if I really loved her I should let her go. The amazing thing that happened was that I became myself again and even more amazing, my ex girlfriend came by one day and said she was in love with me again. It can happen to you also, just be the man she fell in love with again and it won't be long until you will hear your ex girlfriend say that she is in love with you again.