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asked on Apr 1, 2015 at 20:05
by   Helpless
As topic, want to know about "auto-divorce".
Heard that if both parties have separated for 2 years, will be auto-divorce without any party's permission (even though 1 of them disagree to divorce).
Is that true?
If yes, how to prove that already separated 2 years? Any documents needed? And what are the procedures?
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answered on Apr 1, 2015 at 21:20
by   Horseful
"auto-divorce"
Never heard of it b4..
Is it something new that when we can put/slot some papers into a court house machine and it comes out stamped "divorced"?

"have separated for 2 years, will be auto-divorce without any party's permission"
Not exactly accurate. There are other condtions to be fulfilled, e.g. the type/cause of separation:- physical, emotional, spiritual, financial, deceitful, adultery and childless(in some culture).. Still have through go through a court process. The infamous HIGH COURT OF MALAYA. Beware of divorce lawyers...

"If yes, how to prove that already separated 2 years? Any documents needed?"
Simple, get a measuring tape and find out the distance between the two spouses. Submit it to SISIR/SIRIM for approval.

"And what are the procedures?"
What procedures? How To Fix The other party by the giving of any excuses for 2 years "separation"? This is a very common tactic use by women to "shift" out of the marital home on the excuse of the "cooling period" as per bogus T&C of their marriage agreement. U are the M or F?

Note:- 
Any registered legal marriage after completing 2years plus 1 day, be it with child or not, can still be living under the same roof but different rooms, can apply for a divorce without the need for the other spouse permission or forehand knowledge.

HAPPY APRIL 1st.. Heheheee...
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answered on Apr 1, 2015 at 22:19
by   Helpless
This is my story:
He and I were married 2 years ago. He was normal and nice until mid of 2014. He has no bad habit except smoking.
He is selfish and money is most important than everything for him , this one I know and understand. Slowly, I found that he lacks of strength that a man should have, he dont know anything about machinery, car engine, electrical issues as well as small home renovation or repairing. Ha changed his job for 3 times and excuse is "That is a tiring job". As a female, I dont think his jobs are tiring.
He start changed his character and attitude. As his wife, I cant buy any unnecessary things (eg. skin products, new clothes, eating at restaurant etc). He never offered me a tour and if I offer him, sure I will get scolded. Have been quarrel many times on this issues.
Then, he control my friendship. Whoever my friends (F/M) tag me in FB about spend holiday or enjoy, he warned me: Dont let me see any this kind post from your friends! They are trying to influence you to spend money! I will scold them in FB if I see again!
He set a rule that no matter where I go and what I do, I must be home at 10pm. One night, I brought my friend home (F), her house is 1km far from my house and she wants to wait for her husband at my house. Once we reach outside of gate, we saw him stand beside the gate, and he shouted loudly at my friend :Where did you bring my wife to?!
That was only 10pm! I dint break the rule!
As a steady man, he should have a tidy look. I am tired to repeat about his look. His beard is cleaned once per week or per 2 weeks. His hair cut once 3-4 months, if I complain he said I dont love him. I just want my husband have a tidy look, am I wrong?
As a man, he should be responsible to himself and me. He should take good care of his body. But, he did not. Everyday he eat only my cooking meal,if I dont cook, he never buy outside food. I study and working, I cant cook everyday. Then he prefer to cook Maggie Mee if I dont cook. His propose is only "save money"!
As a man, he is very weak and thin, I am totally fed up with him! He dint give me a "safety feel" which a wife need! He dont trust in insurance and never purchase, he only trust his savings can save him in urgent.
Lastly, he dint show respect to my family. I was looked after by my grandparents and I give them money every month. Every month I give, everytime he scold. All what I spent is gained from my job! His money is only used for household and groceries!
Finally, I decide to quit from his life. I dont want a husband who cant even change a puncture tyre, I dont want a husband who always complain about life is hard and tiring, complain about money is always not enough (but enough for him to buy stocks), a husband who doesnt concern about his look and my look (as he dont let me buy skin products and dress up myself), a husband who doesnt respect my family and friends, yet he also lose respect from them and none of them like him. I am tired. I request to divorce. Now we are separated. But he said he will never want to divorce.
I am fed up.
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answered on Apr 2, 2015 at 00:05
by   vkpc
So you have already separated, why still so much complaints?
Must say good things about him now, since already separated.
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answered on Apr 2, 2015 at 00:06
by   jeff005
Try to give each other a last chance to make things works.

Go to JPN to see a Tribunal and meet up with all the marriage counselors there.

Sit down and refect on what makes things tick in the first place, so much so as to get married. It appears both of you are very young and does not know what a marriage is all about.. The givings and takings.. and the ability to appreciate each other, without taking things for granted.

If all methods tried and unsucessful, take only take the plunge to file for divorce. By going to the Tribunal, it will tell that you are serious and hopefully he wakes up.

After 2 years of marriage, any spouse can file for petition for divorce, not necessary being "separated". If both agrees (mutual/joint) petition, saves costs. If one party disagree, then only file for Single petition. Rates and forumers/cum lawyers contacts can be obtained at @ckmarried

.. http://www.lawyerment.com.my/boards/article-Malaysia_Marriage_Divorce_Law-1301.htm

Hope the two of you can reconcile...
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answered on Apr 2, 2015 at 13:51
by   Helpless
If he never shown me any changes how can I say good things about him? Yet he keep on annoying me. Sometimes he is nice and polite, text me in good words, admit his fault. Sometimes he is weird, text me in midnight, keep blaming on me. He wants me back, but at least he must show me his changes. Still show up with messy look, thin and weak, he promised in text, not in action. How can I trust him again. I gave him few chances already. Now totally dont feel like on with him. As revenge, he said he will never divorce. He never thought what his fault is and try the best to save his marriage, his mind just think : his wife leave him.
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answered on Apr 2, 2015 at 14:44
by   jeff005
Yet he keep on annoying me. Sometimes he is nice and polite, text me in good words, admit his fault.
It is normal for a FRUSTRATED husband to do that. I WAS b4..

Sometimes he is weird, text me in midnight, keep blaming on me. He wants me back.
It is normal for a FRUSTRATED husband to do that. I WAS b4..

Still show up with messy look, thin and weak,
It is normal for a FRUSTRATED husband to do that. I WAS b4..
U like obese hubby?

his mind just think : his wife leave him
It is normal for a FRUSTRATED husband to do that. I WAS b4..
From what u have posted above. It is true.

I gave him few chances already
Sure or not? Pls reflect wisely.

Can the behaviour of a spouse change overnight? For this matter even after 6,8 months? Can you change your perception of him within the same period? He still loves you despite all the shortcomings you have complained of him. If he does not love you he would have just walk away HAPPILY....!!!!

It is just teething problems with new marriages.. go pay a visit to a marriage counselor. Make amends and live a HAPPY marriage.
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answered on Apr 3, 2015 at 18:12
by   lol01
hahaha..dono wat marriage then why get married?
girls ohh girlss
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answered on Aug 20, 2015 at 05:32
by   tippytoe
what's your concern now?

get a lawyer and divorce.
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answered on Aug 20, 2015 at 06:49
by   Wiseman Says
At the end of the day, it is important to know what you actually want. Judging by your story, the only way for you to resolve your problem is to divorce your husband, and the only way to do it is by appointing a lawyer. FYI, there is no such thing in Malaysia law as auto-divorce. You have to go through the Court's process in order to be legally separated. I can lend a hand.
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answered on Aug 26, 2015 at 23:05
by   John
Divorce lawyer are very much helpful in divorce case. They will guide us properly and gives proper solution. Divorce lawyer Alexandria, VA is very helpful for me in my divorce case.
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