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Defamation: Sue without any evidence

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asked on Jun 13, 2018 at 21:44
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edited on Jun 19, 2018 at 03:01
 
Lately there's a guy trying to sue me. He claims that I've committed defamation towards him. He used to blackmail me and asking for sex and money. I'd gave him some money in order to stop him from blackmailing me. But, there's a time he went to my house with intention to make me looks like a bad girl in front of my parents and family. I was afraid and panic then I tried to get some help from a man that I don't really know his background to tell him to stop blackmailing me. He became worst as I did so, the man helping me tried to contact his wife and told her about the matter. In that message, he said that her husband is "blackmailing me and more girls". I didn't even ask him to say it that way, I just knew after the man that blackmailed me said I'm the one that defamed him without any proof that shows I'm the one that said it. In conclusion, I would like to know whether I can be sued because of this kind of matter or not?   

P.S. I did not make any police report about him blackmailing me in the first place.
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answered on Jun 13, 2018 at 06:49
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edited Jun 19, 2018 at 03:14
 
Saya telah diugut oleh seorang individu yang dikenali dari laman sesawang WeChat.  Individu tersebut mengugut untuk menyebarkan gambar peribadi saya dengan niat untuk memalukan saya di hadapan keluarga dan kenalan lain. Individu tersebut memberi pilihan samada brikan nya sejumlah wang atau melakukan seks dengannya. Saya telah memberi sejumlah wang kepada individu trsebut. Ada suatu masa, individu tersebut menyatakn ingin ke rumah saya untuk menyebarkan hal memalukan kepada ahli keluarga saya. Saya panik dan takut lalu meminta seorang kenalan dari laman sesawang saya untuk mnyuruh individu tersebut supaya berhenti mengugut saya. Kenalan saya telah menyatakan yang individu tersebut telah mengugut saya dan ramai lagi perempuan kepada isteri pengugut tersebut. Sekarang, pengugut tersebut ingin menyaman saya dengan saman malu kerana telah mengaibknnya. Tapi dia tiada bukti yang langsung menunjukkan saya yang memalukannya. Adakah saya boleh disaman?
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answered on Jun 13, 2018 at 07:41
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Go and make a polis repot for blackmail and extortion against that man. No end to these types of stories..
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answered on Jun 13, 2018 at 12:09
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edited Jun 19, 2018 at 03:17
 
I'm afraid to do so because he always blame me. I've delete my GMail and change my number, now he's disturbing my sister. By the way, can you sue someone without any police report done? 
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answered on Jun 13, 2018 at 23:18
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edited Jun 19, 2018 at 03:24
 
Dear Miss Anne,

You have been persistent and posted the 3rd time. You are only 22 and get into such trouble. Why so worry about the whole issue? Have advised you to make a polis report. There is no end to Blackmail and Extortion.

He claim that I've commit defamation towards him . 
There is no defamation if there is truth in the allegations.

He used to blackmail me and asking for sex and money.
Do you have proof? You paid cash or via electronic means? Who ask you to send private pictures or take private photos with him?

there's a time he went to my house with intention to make me looks like a bad girl in front of my parents and family.
So he is known as a family friend, you asked for trouble and get trouble, that's all..!!

I was afraid and panic then I tried to get some help from a man that I don't really know his background
Now there is another person who can blackmail you in the future. He represented you, so what he said is what you say.
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answered on Jun 13, 2018 at 23:41
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edited Jun 19, 2018 at 03:28
 
I would like to know whether I can be sue by this kind of matter or not? 
This is the least of your worry, you should be more worry down the road, you have 2 persons who can blackmail you in the future. Mark my words. When you get married, they may come back and extort you again. There is no end to criminal intimidationcriminal sexual harassment, criminal extortion and Mental torture.

Go to Ibu Pejabat Polis Kontinjen (IPK) to make a polis report, there are special female officers who knows how to deal with these types of scumbags without the need for concrete evidence. They have ways of threatening backwards.
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answered on Jun 14, 2018 at 04:43
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edited Jun 19, 2018 at 03:31
 
I'm sorry. I'll make a police report after Eid al-Fitr. This man is a stranger to me and I have all the evidence of him blackmailing me through the email and Whatsapp. I also keep the bank transfer that I've done. I'm desperate to ask questions since he has been threatened me and my sister that he will upload the sue letter done by his lawyer in Facebook group. But the matter is I'm not the one that defames him but he said it is all done by me. Is it called defamation if it is only spread to him and his wife and not someone else? 
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answered on Jun 14, 2018 at 06:59
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I also keep the bank transfer that I've done.

Why did you send money to him?
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answered on Jun 14, 2018 at 09:31
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edited Jun 19, 2018 at 03:52
 
I'm not the one that defamed him but he said it was all done by me 
Not done by you but thru your mouth to others. This no defamation if you have strong evidence now. With all the evidences you have harvested, keep all copies in hard copy. I had my handphone stolen and all my evidences lost.

Just go IPK, you need not spend any moneys, but this scumbag is going to douse his butts with gasoline and spend at least RM20k in lawyers fees. That will be your sweet revenge..!! Just do not write and reply but keep the line active. Quietly go make polis report.

What is wrong with posting private pictures in Facebook? Nothing more nothing less.  Wish I can have all those pics in my heydays... Now post also "malu", if on fours, look like a pregnant rhino! I recall at 15, many of my classmates (all boys school) went to camp at a beach. At night ALL stripped real naked and played in the seawater, shooting each other with water pistols (not Songkran). How I wish we have taken pics of our youth! And I can send those pictures to their wives now and blackmail them telling those ladies...  "we were gays once upon a time"..!!
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answered on Jun 14, 2018 at 20:37
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edited Jun 19, 2018 at 03:55
 
@vkpc, I gave it because he keeps blackmailing me. He even gave my contact to other person, and that person blackmailed me too. He said I used up his money 2 years ago,  but he didn't reveal his identity and there's no evidence that he transfered any money to me.  
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answered on Jun 14, 2018 at 20:43
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edited Jun 19, 2018 at 04:01
 
@jeff005, I will make the police report as soon as possible. I've contact one of the police officer who will assist me. That bad guy keeps insisting that I defamed him even there's no evidence. He even asked his lawyer (I don't even know whether it is fake or real one) to chat me in Whatsapp.  But I notice that the way he texts me doesn't seem like an educated person (with all the misspelled words and grammar errors).
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