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asked on May 8, 2017 at 13:24
by   del80
im a married woman with 3 kids...recently i've found out that my husband been asking for sex services form the massage parlour..i have snapshots his converstation on wechat asking for sex services..right now im thinking of divorcing him..can anyone help me to explain the divorce procedure and can i used th wechat msg as proof for his infidelity?
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answered on May 8, 2017 at 14:53
by   vkpc
Have you thought carefully about what will happen to your 3 kids if their parents divorce?
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answered on May 8, 2017 at 15:20
by   WkeUpCall
These are all personal relationship that is plaguing young couples.
Why is the husband asking for sex services when the wife is giving "enuf"?
Some wives is concentrating too much on a broth of children that often the husband has been neglected. The solution.. put some LOVE and Spice in the personal relationship..!!

can i used th wechat msg as proof for his infidelity?
It is proof of breakdown of husband and wife  relationship.
It has no bearing on the Custody of the children. In some cases, the husband gets the male child, the wife gets the female child. The two feuding parents have done nothing but to break up the siblings.

Got nothing better to do? Go visiting orphanages, do social work, secure donations for the old folks home. Why are those living in old folks home, some may be due to breakdown of family life in the past. The family is no longer cohesive, maybe breakdown relationship in parental relationship. The blame game goes down the line, up to even grandchildren.

Let's be real with this world..!! What difference between one woman to the next? The next man to the current man? No big difference except for financial status. It is just like jumping from the frying pan into the fire. Male goes for sex services? Some sex workers could be reading newspaper, smoking cigars, nowadays using handphones securing the next session business while servicing any "husbands". NOT all men goes for conjugate services..!!
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answered on May 8, 2017 at 15:57
by   del80
hey WkeUpCall..that's why im asking..to get others opinion..yes im angry...right now im still angry...yeah for me its a choice u made as a person...and i am thinking about my children future as well...i havent confronted him yet because im too emotional right now and he's the type who will try his best to ignore my questions...so dont be too emotional cuz im the one who supposed to be emotional right now....and thanks for ur advice cuz u made me smile though...oh yeah about financial status, im totally independent...never have i relied on him to provide or give me money...
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answered on May 8, 2017 at 16:14
by   WakeyWakey
why im asking..to get others opinion.
I am giving an opinion, why get emotional?
You want to post on a public media, you get opinions, isn't this what you wanted?
Expect empathy, sympathy.. YES for sure U can get..
What about the 3 children? Who can empathize their feelings, their frustrations?
You are totally independent, so what? Rich? Have a complete family? Have a loving husband?
Money do not solve personal issues. We here, are hearing only your side of the story. Did you use sex as a weapon against your husband? Causing him the need for services from sex workers?
If I am emotional, I would have run you down like nobody business and there is nothing you can do about it. So sit back, cool down and hear what other opinions you can get.
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answered on May 8, 2017 at 16:49
by   jeff005
right now im thinking of divorcing him

Go to the Bar Council Website.. you can get the services of the nearest Divorce Lawyer to your place. You need the services of a competent Lawyer as there are children involved.

Just google "Divorce Procedures". It is standard and do not need any explanations.

The other alternative is to seek the services of a Mediator to resolve family misunderstandings (if any).
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answered on May 8, 2017 at 21:12
by   vkpc
yes im angry...right now im still angry...
When you are angry, you tend to make the wrong decisions.

Don't think that because you are married to a man, you own the man.
Selfish love do not last.
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answered on May 9, 2017 at 13:09
by   vkpc
I saw in an interview, the interviewer asked the famous singer Belinda Carlisle
how she managed to keep her marriage for 33 years, which is unusual for rich successful people.

Her answer was, we give each other space.

Giving each other space means not snooping into each other's WeChat and WhatsApp.
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